Light bondage play or BDSM, Leather, whips, chains, gags, restraints
When one hears the words BDSM what comes to mind? Leather, whips, chains, gags, restraints and maybe even pain, right? For most people, the image of Bondage, or BDSM, connotes all of these things and sometimes worse. They don’t have the remotest interest in exploring it because of the way it has been portrayed in the movies, media or in our own imaginations!
Well, at Sensual Flix Adult Boutique we are here to tell you BDSM does not have to be anything like what you have imagined! Playful bondage, the kind that will be discussed here is an extremely pleasurable experience for both partners, and can heighten the arousal to levels not previously attained. And all without pain!
Since we at Sensual Flix Adult Boutique pride ourselves on first and foremost educating people on the facts, let me begin with some definitions so that we may all begin on the same page. What does BDSM stands for?
B – Bondage
D – Discipline *or* Dominance
S – Submission *or* Sadism
M – Masochism
These elements when put all together basically mean: being restrained, dominated and made to submit to your partner’s demands and being disciplined when you don’t – and deriving sexual pleasure from the infliction of different levels of pain. The most important thing to remember in this equation is this: the level of intensity of all these elements is up to you and your partner. Any of these elements can be removed.
When we at Sensual Flix Adult Boutique suggest to you that you should start with a feather we meant it literally. Once you have decided on your state of undress, and immobility, it’s time to let the teasing begin.
The feathers or silky fabrics at Sensual Flix Adult Boutique are a very sensual tools when used in light bondage play. They tickle, they excite, they make the skin’s neuro-transmitters go crazy when passed along the skin! It is a totally wicked sensation to be tied down and have a feather or a silk scarf run up and down your body! Imagine a silk scarf wrapped gently around your partners penis and gently pulled up! The sensation of the fabric between your legs, thighs, or your clit, the possibilities for teasing are endless!
Contrary to what some people might think, BDSM is not about violating someone while they are immobilized. The “art” of playful bondage involves teasing and tickling, licking and sucking, bringing your lover to the absolute heights of passion.
For those women and men who like to explore the further realms of their pain and pleasure equation, step into Sensual Flix Adult Boutique – there are clit clamps and penis harnesses – but that is more of an advanced discussion and may scare off the newbies!
Our point here is: different strokes for different folks, and in BDSM, some folks like the harder strokes!