Light bondage play or BDSM, Leather, whips, chains, gags, restraints

When one hears the words BDSM  what comes to mind? Leather, whips, chains, gags, restraints and maybe even pain, right? For most people, the image of Bondage, or BDSM, connotes all of these things and sometimes worse. They don’t have the remotest interest in exploring it because of the way it has been portrayed in the movies, media or in our own imaginations!

Well, at Sensual Flix Adult Boutique we are here to tell you  BDSM does not have to be anything like what you have imagined! Playful bondage, the kind that will be discussed here is an extremely pleasurable experience for both partners, and can heighten the arousal to levels not previously attained. And all without pain!

Since we at Sensual Flix Adult Boutique pride ourselves on first and foremost educating people on the facts, let me begin with some definitions so that we may all begin on the same page. What does BDSM stands for?

B –  Bondage
D – Discipline *or* Dominance
S –   Submission *or* Sadism
M – Masochism

These elements when put all together basically mean: being restrained, dominated and made to submit to your partner’s demands and being disciplined when you don’t – and deriving sexual pleasure from the infliction of different levels of pain. The most important thing to remember in this equation is this: the level of intensity of all these elements is up to you and your partner. Any of these elements can be removed.

When we at Sensual Flix Adult Boutique suggest to you that you should start with a feather we meant it literally. Once you have decided on your state of undress, and immobility, it’s time to let the teasing begin.

The feathers or silky fabrics at Sensual Flix Adult Boutique are a very sensual tools when used in light bondage play. They tickle, they excite, they make the skin’s neuro-transmitters go crazy when passed along the skin! It is a totally wicked sensation to be tied down and have a feather or a silk scarf run up and down your body! Imagine a silk scarf wrapped gently around your partners penis and gently pulled up! The sensation of the fabric between your legs, thighs, or your clit, the possibilities for teasing are endless!

Contrary to what some people might think, BDSM is not about violating someone while they are immobilized. The “art” of playful bondage involves teasing and tickling, licking and sucking, bringing your lover to the absolute heights of passion.

For those women and men who like to explore the further realms of their pain and pleasure equation, step into Sensual Flix Adult Boutique – there are clit clamps and penis harnesses – but that is more of an advanced discussion and may scare off the newbies!

Our point here is: different strokes for different folks, and in BDSM, some folks like the harder strokes!

Hitachi magic wand – Sensual Flix Adult Boutique

The internet is flooded with accounts of the strength of the hitachi magic wand’s, versatility and staying power. It’s commonly referred to as the Cadillac of vibrators and has been a best seller at progressive sex shop Sensual Flix Adult Boutique in Ottawa since it opened in 1997. It has gone from from ads in the back of the liberal political rag Mother Jones in the ’80s to being the punch line on an episode of Louie earlier this year. In the meantime, it has become a regular in the pages of magazines like Cosmo and on websites like sensualflix.com . In the near fifty years since its birth, technological advances have led to major leaps in technology, but the Magic Wand at Sensual Flix Adult Boutique has remained largely unchanged. That is until the summer of 2014. Hitachi got rid of the old, 80s packaging, retooled the materials for a lighter, more durable product and switched out the circuit board. To the uninitiated, it looked just like the old Magic Wand massager, with one exception: The Hitachi name was nowhere to be found.

Over the years attitudes toward sex and sex toys have changed drastically, but no other vibrator has captured the mainstream imagination like the Magic Wand massager at Sensual Flix Adult Boutique, save for maybe the multi pronged Rabbit, which has its own turn in the spotlight at Sensual Flix Adult Boutiqe. With the help of the media, serious discussions about masturbation and sexuality have moved from the confines of women’s sexuality workshops to the national level.

Rabbit vibrator Ottawa sex shop Sensual Flix

The Rabbit vibrator’s at Sensual Flix Adult Boutique Ottawa can be operated with batteries or some of the newer models are re-chargeable. The rabbit stimulates both the clitoris and vaginal canal. They have dual action rotating shafts and spinning pearls that cause exciting sensations. They come in a number of shapes and sizes, but most look like a traditional vibrator with a small rabbit coming off of it to stimulate the clitoris. You insert the vibrator until the clitoral stimulator (rabbit) reaches the clitoris. The penetrative portion of the vibrator usually contain rotating pearls that stimulate the first third of the vaginal canal – where the majority of nerve endings are.

According to Sensual Flix adult boutique Ottawa vibrators increased demand of sexual pleasure and fun toys and more penetration and intense working toys. Rabbit vibrators are designed according to advanced users’ demands of best penetration, masturbation and intensity changing options to do its job at different levels.

Silicone vibrators are much easier to clean and since this material is non porous, therefore no bacteria or foreign matter is absorbed. Silicone retains heat and has no odour.

The rabbit Vibrators at Sensual Flix adult boutique Ottawa have been designed for simultaneous internal (vaginal) and external (clitoral) stimulation. The rabbit-shaped stimulator is held near the clitoris, while the shaft is inserted into the vagina, offering deep, “all around” stimulation. These dual action vaginal and clitoral Rabbit’s are among today’s best sellers. They usually offer a choice between two shaft rotation speeds and two patterns of clitoral stimulation, or allow the user to enjoy both at the same time.

At Sensual Flix adult boutique Ottawa the rabbit vibrator has been described as “one of the most visible contemporary signs of active female sexuality”. The biggest appeal of the rabbit vibrator is its ability to give simultaneous clitoral and vaginal stimulation.